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But what about people who identify as polyamorous? First things first, what does it mean to be polyamorous, exactly, and how common is polyamory?


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On top of casual dating, maintaining nonmonogamous relationships presents challenges for those trying to proceed with their romantic lives. For many folks, their partnerships are evolving day by day as social distancing shifts to the new normal and shelter-in-place circumstances disrupt poly formations.

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A study by the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy suggests that as many as one in five single Americans report having engaged in consensual non-monogamy, or the practice of having two or more romantic partners.

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Indeed, non-monogamy is experiencing a cultural moment in media recently, showing up as the subject of New York Times think pieces and as a plot driver in television dramas. But when those relationships bump up against everyday life, does more love mean more complications?

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Rami Henrich: I have been in a poly relationship since I was married in to a man, and I met my partner, who is a woman, in My husband was okay about opening the relationship to include my partner. Over a period of some time, we decided to all live together. We have lived together for 26 years. And ours is a very specific constellation — we have a more or less monogamous poly relationship — none of us goes outside the three of us.

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I have my primary relationship with each of them, and their primary relationship is me. So we three have raised children together. My husband and I birthed two children. We were slashing through the institutionalized bushes together, school issues, how do you tell the kids, family, friends.

It was a big coming out process over the years.

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We ed a Chicago poly meetup group, and after I had gone to a book club or two, I saw something on their site saying they were looking for a therapist to facilitate a support group. My partner and I started facilitating that group once a month now for eight years, and we had 1, to 2, people come through that group.

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I was shocked the first day that I said that I would do it, within 24 hours we had 20 people ed up with a wait list of Over the years I would say somewhere between 25 and 45 people a month show up for those meetings. I had always wanted to find a way to help marginalized communities. It found me. RH: For me personally it was that I loved somebody other than my husband — I thought, why do I have to choose?

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Some people come to that early in life — why do I need to say no to this one and yes to that? Who makes up this binary system around our loving? I found myself wanting to be with more than one person — I did early in my life come to a group in Boston where it was allowed and was accepted — Polyamory dating Chicago was a hippie, what can I tell you — it helped to shape the way I thought later. My siblings in particular, they were open but they still took a long time to wrap their he around what was really going on here.

This paper I wrote speaks specifically about the unique issues of poly clients. You have to deal with more than one relationship — some of the constellations are much bigger than us — having to manage their time, their energy, their money, their place in the world, all of those kinds of things get exponentially more difficult with more people in a relationship. And I tell them, I just think you want to have a lot of affairs and you want your wife to say okay.

But I think that it is for most a serious endeavor.

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I find the endeavor very truthful and sincere. Some people identify being poly as being hard-wired and others are endeavoring to live a poly lifestyle.

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I may not be paying attention to a lot of it but I think the things I have seen try to oversensationalize the sex part of it. When somebody called me to televise our poly relationship for a reality show, I said, you would be bored watching the three of us watch TV. I have another committed partner of 5 years. The two of them do not have a romantic relationship with each other.

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The three of us really co-parent our children together. Neither of us has the space or capacity for a committed relationship with each other, complete with integrated family and all that, but sometimes the stars align and some space opens up for the both of us, and we are able to share some really meaningful and special time with each other. CK: People really like to talk about sex in polyamory, but my view is, screw the sex, the best part of it is the child care!

For the kids, having three parent figures who all get along, who love each other, who work together, and for each of us to have this freedom and another set of hands--I seriously am so spoiled and have tremendous respect for people who have to raise kids with fewer people. For other parents of young kids, I think polyamory dating Chicago get more envious of the three parent household than the opportunity to have more sexual partners.

I wrote a blog post once about how we sat around and carved pumpkins, my kids and my two partners, and it was fun and normal and boring, and I got more response to that than any other blog post.

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When a community is marginalized and its members are afraid to seek help, it can make it easier for predatory people to polyamory dating Chicago within those communities. Do you find that to be the case in the poly community? CK: Poly ends up being very empowering to women, and that can counteract a lot of that behavior.

Being open and transparent is always going to help mitigate abusive behavior, as well as having a strong community. But in the reality of the bubble of the polyamory community, women tend to hold equal power and often more options than the men do. Of course people of all genders have to be careful, just like anyone would if they go to a bar on Saturday night or meet strangers on Tinder or OKCupid. Polyamory is so much about communication, honesty, and being open--the moment I see someone trying to be dishonest or cagey or like they are hiding something from a partner, huge red flags go off and I run in the opposite direction.

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